PRINCIPLES TO LIVE BY: Don't portray the "bitchy fashionista" model.

 

Most women of “high society” think that by being drama queens, complaining about their men while drinking cocktails and bragging about being “bitches” is attractive. They think that by smiling, being polite and having absolutely nothing to gossip about is pathetic. 

I can visualize the typical night out. High heels, hot pink lipstick, sparkly dress. Beautiful, educated women attacking with their words the so-called “women of failure.” In other words, women who are lacking the social status or other things such as the latest Louis Vuitton bag or the wealthy, handsome husband. 

Well let me just say that the “bitchy fashionista” model is as old as Queen Elizabeth. It only came into existence because the movies and the media decided it should. As someone who got through that phase, I can assure you that being a bitch (or pretending to be one) is not something to be proud of. It’s a disorder that makes you think it’s totally okay to be rude and aggressive as long as you get what you want. You think that you have to speak up your mind and gain some “respect”. But the only thing you’re getting is a contact list full of frenemies.

If you think that having a smile on your face and acting normal is not sexy, then let me just say that the happiest girls are the sexiest ones! And you cannot really feel happy unless you realize that you are not better than anyone else. Classifying yourself as an egocentric person and feeling good about it is crazy. It’s not classy. It’s not real and it simply feeds your insecurity. There’s a huge difference between being confident and being a bitch. There’s a huge difference between loving yourself and acting as if you’re the only person living on this earth.

…Maybe women nowadays are afraid to show who they really are. Maybe they’re afraid to show that, as well as pretty and successful they’re also sensitive and thoughtful and HUMAN. I’m not going to explore the reasons why in this post but I would like to ask you this: If you are going to pretend to be someone else …then who’s going to be YOU?

Love and marvel,

E.